Let us start it with a fictitious story... Suppose a head of
procurement for a large MNC is about to retire in a year. In his entire life, he
has been an honest and upright man. With retirement facing him, suddenly he
finds himself in an odd situation. With no regular income and most of his savings
gone in taking care of his children, he doesn’t have enough money to take care
of himself and his wife in our their age. But in a year, if he overlook some
things and make minor adjustments in some large orders, he can make enough to
live comfortably.
Even the company will not suffer because the quality loss or
monetary loss will be negligible. But his conscience is needling him. Haven't
even gods tweaked the moral code a little bit in times of extreme need?
He gets a feeling that you are asking for permission to be
dishonest. Does the act become acceptable if someone agrees with you? Why do
you need someone else's approval to be honest, or dishonest? Is it okay to be
dishonest because the 'gods' were dishonest?
There is a folk story of Bhisma asking the people of
Hastinapur for advice on whether he should fight for the Kauravas or the
Pandavas. The people answered, "Why are you seeking permission now? Did
you seek our permission when you took the decision to renounce your throne and
stay celibate for the sake of your father?
We, the people of the city, are still paying the price of
those foolhardy decisions. It is the one reason that has led to this war."
You took a decision earlier in your career to focus all expenses on your
children, and not on your old age. You are now facing the consequences of that
decision. Good or bad, you have created this situation. This is what is called
karma - the result of our actions that we are obliged to experience. Rather
than taking responsibility, you are playing the victim.
Whether you are honest or dishonest, there is a price to
pay. In the Mahabharata, Krishna upholds dharma and for that he is cursed by
Gandhari, the mother of the Kauravas, which results in the destruction of his
entire family. He does not plead innocent; he does not curse Gandhari for being
unfair. Good actions have collateral damage, as do bad actions.
In Indian philosophy, no action is right or wrong, unlike
commandment-based biblical traditions that have shaped principles of Modern
Management. The organization expects you to be honest. But it also knows that
you can be dishonest hence a whole system of CCTVs and auditors exist, to keep
a check on wrongful activity. You can turn the other way, and rationalise your
act, but there is the chance of you getting caught and with that will follow
disgrace and loss of reputation. And even if you do not get caught, you have to
live with the guilt and shame of upholding values only when it was convenient.
The choice is entirely yours.
In taking the great vow, Bhisma gave his father happiness
but doomed the city of Hastinapur to generations of palace squabbles. Is that
good or bad? For years, writers and storytellers have told us Bhisma is a noble
upright man. Was he really so? There is no objective truth. Only opinions.
Ultimately, you have to decide and face up to the consequences. That is what
Indian mythology talks about.
We,Indians are gurus of the 'Grey' area( or is it brown area?). For us there is no absolute right or wrong. At one hand we love honesty - but won't think twice to bribe the traffic cop. The key idea is of tolerance - a concept not new to engineers. Any activity is good as long as it's consequence is within the tolerable band. So, if the bribe is worth Hundred bucks- no problem. But if someone takes a bribe for a high amount it is not 'ok' anymore. But theoretically both are equally bad. Even the Indian law enforcement agencies are probably working on the same idea. As long as the 'Black Money Earning' does not cross the threshold, they are 'ok' with it.
ReplyDeleteHaving mental 'tolerance' has made us Indians very flexible for ages. But the question remains - When all this individual tolerance thresholds are stacked up and we are seen as a nation, what exact picture do we portray?
The picture is totally grey... just dont know what is gonna happen to our nation...
Deletewell written article.. like the thought process behind it..
ReplyDeleteThank You!!!
DeleteWe always try to find alibi while doing a wrong and to find solace hide behind the truths.
ReplyDeleteThat's so true!!!
DeleteThe article is good and gives an insight in the psyche where a wrong act is justified with various pretexts to give calmness to conscience.
ReplyDeleteThank You!!
DeleteVery well said. Never looked at bhishma's story from this angle.
ReplyDelete:-) thanks...
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